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Gail Werner Photography bio picture

Welcome to my Blog!

Gail Werner is a central Indiana wedding and portrait photographer.
Here’s where she tells you she likes the feel of the ocean and the
taste of champagne. Oh wait …

Truth is, she does love the ocean (when she can make it to a
coast!), but what she loves more is documenting the lives of her
clients — big days, little moments, they all carry meaning and deserve
to be captured.

This blog is where Gail shares her current client work and don’t be
surprised to find plenty of personal antecedotes on here as well.
Because when it comes to her life, Gail’s pretty much an open book. And
speaking of books, well, she loves those too. And her husband. And her
dog. So stick around and find out what else she likes or head over to www.gailwernerphoto.com to take a peek at her portfolio. Want to get a hold of her? E-mail Gail at gail@gailwernerphoto.com.

And just for the record, Gail also likes pina coladas but draws the line at getting caught in the rain.

Gail Werner is available for travel to any location.

(All images of Gail Werner taken by Betsy King Photography)

A snowstorm is perfect when …

You desperately needed a reminder from God that for all the other days winter is a pain in the butt, there are a few that can still leave you in wonderment.

You have a Subaru Outback with four-wheel-drive your husband wants to test out on the roads shouting “I LOVE THIS CAR!” as he plows through 12-inch drifts leaving slushies in his wake.

You want to treat that same husband to chocolate chip cookies and a cup of hot cocoa after watching him plow the driveway for 2 hours (I know, I should have helped right?)

You need a reason to just stop. Everything. Because nothing’s open, there’s no place you need to be, and there’s nothing you can do about it.

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February 6, 2010 - 11:56 pm Jenna - what a great post! I absolutely love snow storms - we dont receive many of them here in KS, but they are so beautiful.

February 7, 2010 - 5:22 am Erin - sounds like you had a lovely day! that story of nick and the subaru - totally an erik thing to do, too, ha! he LOVES to drive crazy through unplowed parking lots and quiet streets. what is it with those guys? :) mmmm, and the chocolate chip cookies and cocoa are giving me some ideas here...enjoy the rest of your weekend!

February 7, 2010 - 10:09 am olivia fey - I am jealous you received more snow than us in Fort Wayne. I bought a Subaru last year and have yet to full test it out after a good snow storm.

February 7, 2010 - 12:21 pm Tira J - SO GORGEOUS!!!!!!

February 7, 2010 - 2:44 pm Pol - Soooo beautiful! I love all the white!

February 7, 2010 - 2:46 pm Emma in London - Gah, I miss the snow you guys get over there!

February 8, 2010 - 6:22 am Christine - I 100% agree. It's even better when you have your camera ready to go :) Too bad our snow last night was only a few cm's :(

February 8, 2010 - 8:17 am j.ro - yay for snow! and especially lovin' the branch shot!

February 8, 2010 - 3:42 pm Courtney - i love the one eyed snowman. :) lovin' all the snowy goodness too! we keep getting 'dustings' down here so i want a few more inches on the ground! i think we might get some of that tomorrow but go figure I'll be working at the dreaded day job so no shooting will be had. Phooey.

February 8, 2010 - 5:26 pm Betsy - Beautiful! Wish I lived next door!

Give me 24 hours in Ann Arbor …

And I’LL SEE:

  • A vibrant campus town crawling with college students who LOVEEEEEE their Urban Outfitter. (Seriously, U of M students take fitting this store’s mold of hipster seriously — we popped in while they were having a 10 percent discount sale and you would have thought they were giving away the store.)
  • A beautiful Big Ten campus with soaring stone buildings and serious students tucked away inside, all contributing to a suspicious feeling you’ve stumbled onto the Ivy League set of a film..something like “Good Will Hunting: The Sequel.”
  • SUNSHINE! Folks, when you haven’t seen sunshine since the start of the year, you rejoice in the littlest of victories. Who cares if the wind is bitter, the temperatures in the teens — a dose of sunshine does a girl goooood. (And had it been 32 degrees and sunny, we might have seen some of those college kids in their flip flops!)

I’LL HEAR:

  • Sam Beam of Iron & Wine singing an a cappella version of “Flightless Bird, American Mouth” (kinda like this) followed by an acoustic encore of “Boy With a Coin” (which goes something like this) that left Friday’s audience at the 33rd annual Ann Arbor Folk Festival hungry for more.
  • And while I’m at that folk fest, I’ll tap my toes and nod along to Ben Gibbard (of Death Cab) and Jay Farrar (of Sun Volt) sing songs like “Big Sur,” from their collection of tunes paying tribute to Jack Kerouac.
  • Then I’ll wake up on a lazy Saturday morning to hear birds chirping, airplanes droning above, and a voice inside my head saying, “Yep, this is gonna be a good, lazy Saturday.”

I’LL EAT:

  • A goat cheese appetizer with plantain chips followed by arepas at a great Cuban joint called Little Havana. And if you’ve never had ‘em (and I hadn’t before Friday), arepas are corn cakes with (more!) goat cheese and avocado and sauteed spinach. Yum!
  • Lentil soup and a to-die-for BBQ eggplant sandwich with sweet potato fries at Seva, a vegetarian restaurant I’m still dreaming about.
  • A coconut CUPCAKE as a reward for all that walking we did. In the cold. I mentioned it was cold, right?

I’LL BUY:

  • Alexander Girard pillows from Urban Outfitters (but not these particular ones … no, mine were a lucky steal at $5 a piece. Which made standing in that line of hipster college students buying their $78 jackets at 10 percent off totally worth the 20 minute-wait. $5 A PIECE PEOPLE!)
  • A scarf. Yeah, ’cause, you know, I NEED another one. (That’s sarcasm, friends.) My neck hasn’t seen the light of day in weeks.
  • A T-shirt at Moosejaw, a Michigan-based outdoor company I had no knowledge of before Saturday but am henceforth completely obsessed with.

I’LL THANK

  • My friend Melanie, who let me crash on her futon while she played host, showing me around her new city. (Melanie is a Michigan native who was a photographer for The Star Press, where I was a journalist, before moving to Ann Arbor last year, causing me to make this face :(
  • Melanie’s cat, Lucy. Just ’cause she’s cute. And makes me laugh with those belly flops of hers.

I’LL FEEL

  • Relaxed. 100 percent so. For the first time in ages.
  • Inspired. Because I love few things more than a weekend like this — hearing live music, eating new food, seeing a new city, all with my camera beside me and my senses ready for the challenge.

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February 4, 2010 - 9:40 pm Betsy - AHHHHHH!!! This is getting me SOOOO excited for this weekend and my own little (escape the super bowl) trip to AA!!!! You know John went to Michigan, right? Did you know he proposed to me on that campus and I saw my ring for the first time under the lights of that Marque next to Urban Outfitters. : ) Thanks for the collage!!!!! So glad you had such a great weekend! Take me next time!!!! (Seriously!)

February 4, 2010 - 10:11 pm April Cochran-Smith - Looove A2! I actually lived there for 5 years & didn't realize how much I'd miss it. Such a great downtown - glad you enjoyed it :)

February 5, 2010 - 6:54 am Erin - sounds like you had a great time - love the iron & wine and moosejaw callouts. sweet!! and ahhhh, that coconut cupcake. do you remember our wedding cake...coconut upon coconut upon, well, coconut?! i'm salivating and headed to the kitchen now. :)

February 5, 2010 - 7:25 am jess@studio3z - OH MY GOODNESS...that sounds like the most wonderful weekend! I was thinking yesterday about you and your trip. So glad you got some rest time. :)

February 5, 2010 - 10:35 am Sarah - Oh my gosh!! That sounds like an AMAZING weekend! I've been to Michigan a handfull of times and each trip was cloudy and cold so I can understand how a little sun might make eveyone giddy :) Now I am off to search my city high and low until I find some of those arepas! I'll be dreaming of those all day...

February 5, 2010 - 1:46 pm Erin Marie Hall - You have REALLY weird taste in food, ma'am. I love this little collage, I have friends at U of M and I hear it's a lovely campus. And YAY for scarves! ;)

February 6, 2010 - 10:06 am kaila - Oh how I love Ann Arbor! You have me wanting to go back! I think I will have to schedule a trip! Enjoy relaxing and being inspired... two of my favorite things!

February 6, 2010 - 11:31 am jamie delaine - I want to come. We'd get along so well.

It’s an honor to be nominated — FOR REAL IT IS

If you pay attention to this kind of stuff (and boy do I!), you know yesterday was the day they announced the nominees for this year’s Academy Awards. You know how the tech kids were all aflutter over last week’s news of the iPad? Well, that’s how I get when it comes time for film awards season. I live for this stuff. And I love to read all the commentary about who should have gotten nominated for what. And who’s gonna wear what designer. All of it.

This morning, I was reading this article on CNN.com about, you know, the question of is it really an honor just to be nominated? I didn’t think much more of it — just another form of commentary building up to the big ceremony.

Then tonight I get an email from my friend who writes, “Congrats on being nominated for a “ShowIt Best of 2009″ award!” So I check out the latest poll on Show It’s Facebook site (and if you’re unfamiliar, Show It is the auh-mazing Web software I used to create my Web site, which I gushed about here last fall), and what do you know. … There I am— in not just one category (Photographer of the Year) but two (Dig the Design)! Right up there with — OMG ARE YOU READY FOR THIS?

Jasmine Star. Bob and Dawn Davis. Dane Sanders. Oh, you know, just some of the people I look up to most in this industry!!!!

So I’m all, “Honey, get in here!” so Nick comes and stands over my shoulder as I’m looking at these lists and he plays the faithful husband role with an “Oh babe, yeah..I mean, no question. Yours is definitely the best.” (ahhh right?) My actual response? “Are you kidding me? BOB AND DAWN DAVIS HAVE MET OPRAH!”

And on that note, I can say with utmost certainty that absolutely, 100 percent it’s an honor to be nominated. I don’t care if it’s the Academy Awards or a poll for the Web site software you so dearly love, seeing your name up there with industry peers you’ve followed for years will put a smile on anyone’s face. Yesterday it may have been Sandra Bullock. But tonight … tonight it’s my turn to grin.

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And by the way, I recognize I’m the underdog of all underdogs in this here little contest. But if y’all wanna vote for me — a vote of confidence, if you will — well, I’d be much obliged :)

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February 3, 2010 - 8:41 pm jamie delaine - You're so cute! "Bob and Dawn have Met OPRAH!" :) Hahah! Definitely feel like the underdog too, but good luck!

February 3, 2010 - 8:46 pm Lindsey - I voted for yours!! :)

February 3, 2010 - 8:48 pm courtney - WOW Gail! that is freakin' awesome. I'm so excited for you :)

February 3, 2010 - 8:58 pm Amanda - Well said and so totally true. Congrats! You've got my vote!

February 3, 2010 - 9:01 pm Leah - Wonderfully put! Congratulations!

February 3, 2010 - 10:50 pm Ashley - Girl you definitely deserve it, better believe I voted for you :)

February 3, 2010 - 11:04 pm bobbi - AHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! This is a HUGE HUGE HUUUUUGE deal and I COULD NOT be more proud and excited for you!!!!!!! :D :D :D AHHHHHH!!!!!!! Duhtown... Oprah Schmopra... I'm voting for Gail!!!!!

February 4, 2010 - 7:23 am j.ro - super congrats gail! you deserve it!

February 4, 2010 - 7:27 am Betsy Jo - Yay! Congratulations, Gail! I just published my first ShowIt site, and LOVE the company. You deserve it! Good luck!

February 4, 2010 - 7:31 am Tina - Yay!! I just voted for you:)

February 4, 2010 - 7:35 am Erin - girl, congrats! what an honor, seriously - and you TOTALLY deserve it! i definitely just voted for you!

February 4, 2010 - 7:39 am Lexi - How exciting!!!!! Congratulations!! :D

February 4, 2010 - 8:19 am Alli Mc - Congrats Gail! That is so awesome!

February 4, 2010 - 10:56 am Sarah - That is amazing!! Congrats!!!

February 4, 2010 - 11:36 am Jodie - Congrats girl! You deserve this!

February 4, 2010 - 12:12 pm Meridith - All your hard work has paid off! Congrats you deserve it!

February 4, 2010 - 12:48 pm Christine - OMG!! Congrats girl! You totally deserve to win :) As soon as I get home from work you can count on my vote :D

February 4, 2010 - 1:44 pm Maya Laurent - You are so cool! Seriously, you are!

February 4, 2010 - 5:00 pm Tracy - I so voted for you :)

February 4, 2010 - 9:43 pm Betsy - So awesome girl! So happy for you!!!

February 5, 2010 - 7:25 am jess@studio3z - soooo cool!!! I voted!!

February 5, 2010 - 7:25 pm Amber Fox - Wow girl! You are a total rock star! I love the clean simple design that you have on your site and your blog is perfectly integrated with the same style, so I can see why you are nominated. Your photos rock, your writing is great and you have all the things to blow up. Congrats girl!

February 6, 2010 - 8:42 am Katie - WOW! That is incredible! Congrats!!!

February 7, 2010 - 9:47 am Gail Werner - Thanks to everybody who left me some love here AND voted! You're the best!

Self-Portrait Project: January

I’ve always been impressed with photographers who tackle  “365 Days of Self-Portraits” projects. One of my favorite photographers to do this is a woman I found on Flickr years ago by the name of Lauren Rosenbaum. I don’t know this gal, I don’t think she has a blog, I’ve never tried to contact her before, but I could spend HOURS memorized by her art (particularly her frames of her daughters and her buttery bokeh nature shots). And I think I looked at every frame from her 365 Days project. I felt like I KNEW her after I did, know what I mean?

So 2010 was the year I was gonna join the whole group of folks over on Flickr who devote time to their own 365 projects. I mean, what a fun thing to look back on at the end of the year, right? Then I started thinking about how daunting it’d be to take a photo of myself every day. All year. How hard it’d be to come up with ideas after like, the first week. So I chickened out. Threw in the towel before I even let myself get started.

But shortly thereafter, I came across the wonderful Sarah Rhoads’ post about self-portraits and their value and it’s when I realized, who says a self-portrait has to be a daily thing? By turning the concept into a chore, I almost prevented myself from doing the project all together.

I’m glad I didn’t because I think there’s value to be had in photographers turning the camera on themselves. I believe every photographer who takes your picture captures something unique about you that is unique to them and their ability to document people. For some it’s a particular way they smile … for others, maybe a look in the eye they make often but never seen memorialized in a frame. Certain people coax those traits out of us better than others.

And in this photograph I took of myself, what do I see? My mom. Particularly my mom at …oh, about 30 (an age I’m creeping up on). There are not a lot of photographs of my mom at that age so if embarking on a little project like this helped me make a connection like that — to another time, another place, another person so very important to me — well then, this was so totally worth it.

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For this being a January self-portrait, I really snuck it in under the wire, eh? :)

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January 31, 2010 - 11:01 pm julianna - This is a wonderful shot Gail, as photographers we tend to prefer being behind the camera but it is a freeing thing to be in front sometimes.Flickr is taking over my life HaHa and now thanks to you I have new ladies to check out!!!

February 1, 2010 - 12:54 am Erin - what a cool project, gail! it will be interesting to see what you come up with in the months to come! :) i actually wanted to do a 'photo a day', but you are so right - why choose a project that you more than likely won't succeed at?(ok, that doesn't sound so positive does it!! but for the sake of assuming you understand what i mean and this being solely for our blogs, i'll assume you understand) so, i am going to do a 'week of photos' each month. a bit less daunting, eh! good luck!

February 1, 2010 - 9:15 am Connley - Gail, she DOES have a blog and website! Enjoy! http://www.laurenelycephotography.com/index2.php http://laurenelycephotography.wordpress.com/

February 1, 2010 - 10:36 am Amanda - what a great idea! I have a "take a photo a day for a month" goal this year, and I am sorta-kinda dreading the creative challenge of it. (Which of course is why I'm doing it!)

February 1, 2010 - 1:05 pm Christine - This is a beauitful photo! I want to do a self portrait project too, just never got around to starting it. I am the spitting image of my mother too :)

February 1, 2010 - 4:12 pm Emma in London - Oooh I chickened out of the 365 project. I still have a scribbled list somewhere of the shots I wanted to attempt. Lauren's photos are to die for. I remember when I first discovered Flickr a few years back I was mesmerized by her stream. Maybe I will give this another go after all...

February 1, 2010 - 5:06 pm Tracy - You know I will tell you that you look absolutely nothing like your mom, you are Koch through and through. But the expression and the head tilt, is PURE SANDY. Color those eyes ice blue and you have Sandy :)

February 1, 2010 - 10:52 pm Megan Siana - Gail, I love reading your blog. Found it when David Jay posted about you with your new Show it site! Anyhoo, I love the self portrait but couldn't help but notice YOUR missing wedding ring! :) Did you forget to wear that day! Ha!!!!!

February 2, 2010 - 3:03 pm Gail - Hahaa Megan...I shot this looking into a mirror, so my rings are on my opposite hand. I'm wearing them, I PROMISE :)

February 2, 2010 - 3:24 pm Courtney - look at you, you sexy beast! lol Good for you for participating in this. even if its not an every day thing, you'll be happy you did it at all. I wish I had the discipline to even take my photo once per month! lol. Maybe I should really try focusing on that, furrealz.

February 3, 2010 - 11:05 pm bobbi - You are beautiful.

February 4, 2010 - 1:43 pm Maya Laurent - Look at that look you're giving the mirror! I wanted to do the 365 thing too, day three I quit. Ha!

What I’m Lovin’ Round-up: Take 1

When I started a section on my blog called “I really love,” I thought I’d document one thing I love per post. (You know, maybe a book or a movie, or some pair of earrings I loved so much they hadn’t left my lobes in weeks.) Then I realized, over time, that a lot of times, I think about stuff I love in bunches. Trying to blog about everything I love individually …well, it can become more of a burden than something to enjoy. Yet another to-do on a list that keeps piling up. That’s never been my intent behind this idea. Nope, I just want to share all the random “stuff” I collect (figuratively and literally). ‘Cause if I keep it up there by its lonesome, it’ll start to drive me insane. And folks, my sanity’s hanging by a thread ’cause this stuff? It’s been bottling up for a while.

Which leads me to this, your first installment of my “What I’m Lovin’ Round-up”. Up for the first take:

1) Coconut Records

I cannot stop listening to these tunes! If you’ve seen Rushmore, I Heart Huckabees or The Royal Tennenbaums, chances are you’re familiar with Jason Schwartzman THE ACTOR. But, folks, y’all really need an introduction to Jason Schwartzman THE SINGER. He performs under the name Coconut Records and to say I’ve spent the month of January obsessed with his work would be an understatement akin to saying the iPad is, you know, “kinda” cool ;) . The song below is my personal fave track, but give either of his albums a listen over on Lala.com and let me know if you like. Stand-out tracks: “Wires,” “The Summer,” “Slowly,” “Mama” and “The Thanks I Get.”

2) How I Met Your Mother

My friend Tracy introduced me to HIMYM about a year ago (she always told me she thought Ted looks like Nick and I dig, I dig … ) I was all, “Yeah, yeah, but I realllllly don’t need another TV show sucking my will to live.” THEN I got the first and second season on DVD. And didn’t move my butt from the couch for an entire weekend. From there it was on to Seasons 3, 4 and now, 5. My own HIMYM DVDs have been on a rotating “interdepartmental” loan with colleagues in my office as I think I’ve told every person I work with to watch it. And those who take the bite? Well, they too, skip a weekend’s worth of homework and housecleaning because you JUST.CAN’T.STOP.WATCHING. For those who are fellow HIMYM fans, share a favorite episode with me in the comments. My favorites always involve anything to do with a SlapBet or Robin Sparkles (Non-viewers, any chance you’re curious now? ;) )

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3) Dawn Landes

Ever zone out in front of the TV and all of a sudden, some commercial comes on and you sit up and pay attention ’cause suddenly you’re all WHO IS THAT SINGING? Well thank you Chrysler Town and Country for my introduction to this gal. “Straight Lines” (the song in the commercial) is fab, but it’s another track that’s been stuck in my head off Dawn’s debut CD, which came out last week, and that’s “Romeo.” Check out the video below. Bonus cool points for Dawn: She’s married to my FAVORITE folk singer, Mister Josh Ritter.

4) Victoria Secret’s Beauty Rush lip gloss

I usually am a Burt’s Bees or Bonne Bell kind of gal when it comes to this kind of stuff, but the other night I went out to see a movie with some gals, one of whom had on this superfab gloss that was, well, distracting. BECAUSE IT LOOKED AND SMELLED SO AWESOME. A few days later and a trip to the House of Pink and suddenly I’m sporting it too.

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5) Water for Elephants by Sara Gruen

I first read this book a few years ago and just fell for it. HARD. With its Depression-era circus plot and one heck of a love triangle, it was hard NOT to get swept up in the storyline. And of course, I couldn’t help but immediately start visualizing who’d play the key characters in a big screen adaptation (my vote had always gone for Ryan Gosling or Jake Gyllenhaal to play Jacob and Scarlett Johansson to play Marlena).  But this week, I heard that Reese Witherspoon and Robert Pattinson are closing in on starring in the film and well, HELLLLOOOOOOOO HOT STUFF. I’ll go see those two in this in a heartbeat. So check the book out first if you haven’t yet. It’s hard NOT to fall in love with it!

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January 28, 2010 - 10:26 pm Ashley - How can I pick a HIMYM favorite? The Slapgiving episode, Robin's music videos and I won't lie the ones with Britney Spears were pretty funny.

January 28, 2010 - 11:28 pm Paula - Wow, thanks for posting that video :) I have never heard her before and really like "Romeo." I think I am going to have to check out her CD.

January 28, 2010 - 11:29 pm gwyneth colleen - i love me some HIMYM. though...NINJA NEEDS TO MEET HER ALREADY! also...when you come see me, LET'S GO TO THE MALL!

January 29, 2010 - 12:49 am Erin - oh my goodness, i have an ongoing list in my head, as well, that i was just telling erik the other day ' i really need to do that post on things i love or it will take me months to complete!' toooo funny! especially because my list also contains a book and a lip gloss. maybe i'll get as organized as you one day and actually post it. :)

January 29, 2010 - 3:45 am Jenna Unruh - I also LOVE HIMYM and have been watching from the beginning. My favorite episode? WAIT FOR IT....WAIT FOR IT....Honestly, I love them all. Barney is by far my favorite character. His lines are always AWE (WAIT FOR IT) SOME

January 29, 2010 - 11:58 am Sarah - Water For Elephants has been on my "To Read" list forever! Now I need to be sure to read it so I can go see Robert Pattinson (yum!) in the movie :)

January 29, 2010 - 1:07 pm Betsy Jo - Oooh, thanks for the book recommendation! My oldest son keeps asking me to take him to the library, and now I can grab a trusted recommendation while he's in the kids' section. (I have to finish my 2nd trip through The Guernsey Literary and Potato Peel Society, first, though.) Gail, I like this blog. The end.

January 29, 2010 - 2:56 pm jess - omg! i'm SO OBSESSED with HIMYM! i got season 1 for christmas, watched it in one day, then ran out the next morning to buy seasons 2 and 3! i just can't stop watching.... i always get excited when the yellow umbrella appears, it just means we are thismuchcloser to finding out who the mother is

January 29, 2010 - 3:03 pm Tracy Gorjup - See, you should just listen to me for your tv viewing advice. After all, I tried so hard to hook you on Gilmore Girls when it was actually on! But you definitely returned the favor with the True Blood recommendation. Favorite HIMYM? I loved the Intervention episode! Robin Sparkles and Slap Bet are just obvious favorites!

January 29, 2010 - 6:49 pm Lexi - I LOVE Coconut Records!! Easy Girl is one of my favorite songs EVER. :) Never watched How I Met Your Mother but I might have to look into it now....but I don't think anything can steal me away from House :D

January 29, 2010 - 7:26 pm Aly - Oh, my. Where to start with favorite HIMYM episodes? The Duel, The Pinapple Incident, Game Night, Swarley and Murtaugh. Anything with SlapBet or Robin Sparkles of course. I think the recent "foot" reveal was pretty jarring as well! Was the lip gloss mine or Chanel's? I love lip gloss, and Beauty Rush is my fav!

January 30, 2010 - 4:42 pm gina - I LOVE HIMYM! My very favorite episode has to be when Lily is the humped-back man! "Hey! Hey You! Turn Arouuunnd" :D

Honey … I can’t find my wedding ring

It happened last week. Nick came to me with a sheepish look on his face, professing he couldn’t find his wedding ring.

My response was something along the lines of “Excccuuusssee me?” Or maybe it was a dirty glare. Yeah, I think it was the glare. But to be fair, well, I should have been more fair. After all, I’ve found myself in that position a few times myself. With my heart in my stomach because I’d forgotten that I’d left my ring on a countertop while soaking my hands in cleaner to mop the floor. Or having failed to remember I set it on the bathroom sink that one time ’cause I didn’t want my ring caked in mud the way my hands were going to be post-gardening. So I should have been more understanding with him. ‘Cause really, it just as easily could have been me.

This time around, I discerned a level of panic in Nick’s voice I’m not used to hearing. Almost as though he’d REALLY LOST HIS WEDDING RING. “I think I left it at work … yeah, yeah … it’s at work,” he told me. Next day—while at work—Nick found no ring. “It’s in the house. Somewhere around the house, I’m sure of it.”

So where did we find it? Well, turns out there was (white) gold in that thar carpet of ours because, while sweeping the living room before we had friends over on Friday, I came thisclose (and when I say thisclose, I literally mean like, 2 INCHES) from sweeping that band up with my beloved yellow vaccum. But I didn’t. Which means I saved the ring, had a bit of a “Eureka” moment AND got one of the biggest hugs from my husband in return.

Yep, just call me Gail the Super Sleuth :)

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Anybody else out there ever have a lost band scare? Share it with me in the comments (it’ll be my way of making Nick feel better about losing his ring. ‘Cause you KNOW I won’t be letting him live that down for a while ;) )

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January 26, 2010 - 6:02 pm Tira J - After almost 10 years of marriage, we haven't lost any of our rings. David has one and I have two. One of them, I never take off and lock up the other for safe keeping. My Mom lost her diamond a really long time ago and found it 6 months later. One of my friends had her wedding ring stolen from the tanning salon a few years back. My rule of thumb, is that I NEVER take my rings off if I am in a place other then my home. Our rings were meant to last hundreds of years, hence the reason, you can wear it while gardening! LOL!

January 26, 2010 - 6:03 pm Tracy - So Kevin left his sitting on the floor one day, after me repeatedly telling him to not do it. So I took it and hid it and waited to see how long it took him to confess he lost it....see I'm mean like that :) For the record it only took 2 days :)

January 26, 2010 - 7:46 pm j.ro - i intentionally dropped my ring into a bunch of used towels on the hotel room bathroom floor while taking a shower thinking to myself "wouldn't that be absolutely ridiculous of me to forget that I just did that"? And yep, I did just that. Luckily, I had helped the cleaning lady out by putting my own towels in her overstuffed bin. So when I called down to the desk she remembered who I was and found it right on top. phew!! and you know ... love that yellow vacuum!

January 26, 2010 - 7:48 pm Heather - My poor husband is the center of all ring-losing jokes in our circle of friends so I thought I would share. :) He lost his wedding band 3 weeks after we got married in 2005. We were at the beach and a strong surf pulled it right off his finger. It was crazy, because it fit really well... and it was a pretty expensive ring. We replaced it with one that was a lot cheaper (just $100 this time) and 3 months later......the SAME EXACT thing happened. Same beach. Strong surf. Missing ring! We replaced that one with a ring that cost us $1!! :) It changed colors several times throughout its little life on his finger, and then I finally bought him a new one for Christmas last year. This year we will celebrate our 5 year anniversary and he is already on ring #4!!

January 26, 2010 - 8:04 pm mary s. - so... my husband and i have been married almost 6 months. at our 2 month mark, he decided to go surfing... with his ring on... and the ocean ate it. whole. fortunately they only charge you 1/2 price for replacements where we bought his ring!! i bet you can guess what he got for christmas...

January 26, 2010 - 8:19 pm Tina - My sister had a hilarious story: She heard her cat batting something around behind the couch one day - she pulls out the couch, and finds the cat batting around her husband's wedding band. So she takes it, and when he gets home from work she asks where his wedding band is....he replies "oh I just left it upstairs in the night stand". She goes "oh really? go get it". Then he confessed he couldn't find it and was afraid to tell her:)

January 26, 2010 - 8:25 pm Gail - Okay, all of these stories are great (admittedly, the surfing ones are making me jealous because if Nick lost his wedding band surfing that would imply we live someplace warm, which would mean FAR AWAY FROM FRIGID INDIANA RIGHT NOW), but Tina, girl, your sister's story made me laugh out loud tonight. Thank you for sharing ;) Just wait..you're next to know the feeling!! What is it, 8 more months?

January 26, 2010 - 10:04 pm kerri banyas - oh my goodness...I can honestly say that I would have been kicking Drew in the butt!:) What a wonderful ending though....I think you deserve a night on the town for finding it :)

January 27, 2010 - 12:22 am Erin - funny stories!! erik actually lost his ring during year four. he was swimming in the atlantic ocean, playing some kind of water football with the guys and the next thing i knew...i received that same sheepish face. bummer!! but in all fairness i don't wear my engagement or band anymore, but have switched to a plain titanium band that erik made me for my birthday one year. i looooove my beautiful wedding ring, but living where we do, traveling, etc - a band is just easier for me right now. :)

January 27, 2010 - 8:28 am Jodie - Adam did the same thing the year after we were married. He always took it off adn would play with it and I kept telling him...stop doing that! Well sure enough he lost it in the couch and we never found. I honestly think the dog ate it but that means we would have to search you know what and I wasn't going there!

January 27, 2010 - 9:34 am Christine - OMG, I thought I had lost my daughters pride ring when I was in high school. It was winter time and I walked home from school in the snow. I wasn't wearing gloves and when my hands get cold they shrink and my rings don't fit anymore. I got home (like 2-3km walk) and my ring wasn't on my finger. I freaked out. Walked all the way back to school crying, looking through the snow, couldn't find it. Walked all the way back home and went to bed because the walking and crying exhausted me. I woke up and put my hands in my jean pockets and there it was! SO scary though! I only put my rings in three spots in my house, that way if it's not on it has to be in one of those three spots.

January 27, 2010 - 10:02 am Amanda - Allen takes his off to sleep and many mornings has forgotten to put it back on. I always leave it on the nightstand with a sad face on a piece of paper. That usually does the trick! :)

January 27, 2010 - 10:10 am Cassie - Hi Gail, I have been reading yours and Betsy's blog for a long time and am always that girl that never posts and decided it was finally time. I am a beginning photographer trying to start a business in the cold of winter. Anyway, I "lost" my ring at the airport just a few months after being engaged. I was talking to someone and went to show them my ring and it wasn't there! I dropped all my bags and ran through the airport like a chicken without its head. I had all of security looking for an engagement ring at 4:00 in the morning. Lost engagement ring was being shouted down the hallways until I had an aha moment...remembering I had left it by the sink when I scrunched my curls that morning. Few!

January 27, 2010 - 11:57 am Maya Laurent - Ha ha ha! Lucky find! Pat is notorious for spinning his wedding ring in movie theaters of all places. So I constantly here a clank, clank and we have to wait till the movie is over to find it. You'd think he'd stop playing with it!!!

January 27, 2010 - 12:54 pm Brandi - Brian is constantly taking his ring off in all sorts of places. I don't tend to wear mine while I am in the house but they are always in one of two places, and I never leave them anywhere else. He leaves his on his desk, on an end table, on the dresser, on the nightstand, in the bathroom.. 0_o So yes, there have been multiple times he's looking around and I go.. "What are you looking for?" "My ring." *grumblegrumble* :) But we have always found it, and by we, I generally mean me, fairly quickly.

January 28, 2010 - 8:24 am Kim - One morning I found John's ring on the nightstand after he rushed off for a meeting. I felt so bad for him because I KNEW he would be beside himself. I waited for him to call and when he did he was beside himself. My heart broke because it was the first time he was out in the world without wearing it and freaked out. This, from the man who BEGGED me not to make him wear a ring. Yup, I was right, he did get used to it and actually loves wearing it! ;-D

February 2, 2010 - 5:06 pm nicole green - I swear I am going to lose my new ring one of these days! I am soo not used to wearing jewelry and having an engagement ring on my had is soo bizarre. I am afraid that since I'm not used to it, it's going to fly off one of these days and I won't even notice .. and then that would be the end of Nicole since Dan worked so hard for it! AHH! :)

Just call us the Gilmore Girls…

I’d be here at my computer until tomorrow if you asked me to list all the things I love about my photo BFF, Betsy King. She’s a busy mama of an adorable tot with another one on the way, so it’s not always easy for us to get together. Which is probably why, when we do get together, our banter could be fodder for an episode of the “Gilmore Girls.”

For real, I didn’t think it was possible to talk that fast with someone. But when the pair of us meet up, I feel like the day starts with us wanting to synchronize our watches with a “Okay, we’ve got four hours together to get everything we want to talk about in …, get ready, set, GO!” So it never fails that after a day spent with Betsy, I’m spent. But in the ABSOLUTE best way possible. Because for however many hours I get to be with her, I’m all in. There’s a lot of us finishing one another’s sentences, starting a topic only to circle back to it an hour later and talking over each other, but it’s a dialogue we’ve grown fondly accustomed to and our conversations — hurried though they may be — always leave me on the drive back to Muncie feeling oh so happy.

And of course, when two photographers get together, you KNOW there’s gonna be some photo-takin’ involved! So here’s what we came up with in the 10 minutes we busted out some new gear, hopped back in the car four times to warm our fingers, and braved some Fort Wayne traffic to feel the satisfaction of that shutter clicking away once more. Folks, is it summer yet? I.AM.OVER.THIS.COLD.WEATHER.

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And a few that Betsy snapped of me :)

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Oh, and, well …. I couldn’t drop a “Gilmore Girls” reference without, you know, spending 20 minutes on YouTube watching old “Gilmore Girl” clips (come on, I’m not the only one who does this, right? I swear, one day a couple weeks ago someone Tweeted about “The O.C.” and suddenly I found myself spending my lunch hour reliving my college years and watching the first half of the first episode online. I’m so silly…). So, here’s a snippet from one of my all-time favorite TV shows. I keep my fingers crossed for that movie that may come ’round ;)

January 21, 2010 - 5:31 pm Liz - Ya'll are soo so sweet together. Your photos of one another are so full of life and JOY. I love that you cherish one another so much! Reminds me of one of my most precious BFF's. :D

January 21, 2010 - 5:59 pm Amanda - So stinkin' cute - both of y'all!

January 21, 2010 - 7:16 pm Betsy - Awwwwww, thanks girl!!! I always have such a great time too. Thanks for getting me out of the house! Lots of love to you!!!!

January 21, 2010 - 8:08 pm Heather - Is it sad that I watch the Gilmore Girls so much that both of my boys stop in the their tracks when the theme song comes on? Seriously. Great shots, you gals are lucky to have each other!

January 21, 2010 - 9:43 pm Gail Werner - Haha..Betsy, I saw your Tweet about being "the mom" -- TOTALLY not what I met! Sorry about that..this is what happens when I give myself 15 minutes to write a blog post and random pop culture-isms pop into my head!

January 22, 2010 - 12:23 am Erin - sweet! i see a lot of parallels between one of my BFFs and I - we've always lived at least 600 miles apart and now about 3000 so spending time with her over the holidays was a) a wonderful gift, b) a gab session that went all to fast and lasted well into the one night we had together and c) well worth the planning, arranging and 'squeezing in' our time together requires - i can't even imagine when we have children! we're lucky girls, aren't we! :)

January 22, 2010 - 7:02 am j.ro - LOVE that first one! and you have such a beautiful smile/laugh gail!

January 22, 2010 - 8:53 am Courtney - Duuuuuuuuuude, a Gilmore Girls movie?! I'd wait in line for that. I'm currently rewatching the show and I'm on Season 4. :) I heart my Gilmore Girls. :) So were you a Dean, Jess, or Logan fan? Call me a sap but I'm all for Dean and him being Rory's first love! P.S. Great pictures of you and Betsy. :D

January 22, 2010 - 9:48 am Connley - Ohmigoodness....could you and Betsy BE any more precious?!?! I love the pictures! I just sent you a "friend request" on FB! :) Betsy has given me some fabulous advice! I am forever grateful!

January 22, 2010 - 12:07 pm Jenna Unruh - such a fun post. You both make everything look so fun!

January 22, 2010 - 1:30 pm Lindsey - LOVE IT!! I'm going to call my photo BFF right now!! :)

January 24, 2010 - 10:09 pm Erica - So much fun and you both look so cute! I agree--I am over this weather. I'm not much south of you and I'm sick of it. Snow or rain, rain or snow. Ick. I refuse to take pictures of mud. Do tell...what new pieces did you guys break out?

January 28, 2010 - 8:26 am Kim - How cute are you two!?!? I am so jealous.

January 28, 2010 - 10:58 am gwyneth colleen - you are way cute. like way.

February 2, 2010 - 3:20 pm charla BLUE - I LOVE love the first shot of you. Super adorable. I think it needs to be your new blog banner. :)

How (but more importantly, why) I got started in photography

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I remember it like it was yesterday. Falling asleep the night of my wedding happier than I thought it was possible a person could be. Beside me was my best friend, my HUSBAND (the first few times you say that is so surreal!) and in my mind what exactly did I remember about my wedding day? Well, not much actually … it was all such a blur. The images that carried me off to dreamland that night literally were the moments caught by our wedding photographers, Turtle Pond Photography — still fresh on my mind after seeing them play on a slideshow at our reception.

People will tell you your wedding day flies, but until you experience it, you won’t believe how much it’s true. Or how, what you WILL remember of it — whether it’s as your head hits the pillow that same night or the next year or 20 years from now — is what was reflected through the lens of your wedding photographer. This photo above of Nick and I? When I think of our wedding day, it’s this image that Amanda captured of us that is the very first memory that comes to mind, every time. And to me, it is perfect.

So, shortly after our wedding, I got caught up in this intoxicating world of wedding photography. I’ve had photography friends and new photographers alike share with me that, for them, what got them going in this business was someone telling them they had a knack for photography. Those first photos they’d taken, and shared with others, were their catalyst.

Me? Not so much. That’s not how my journey started. No, it all began with one night — the best of my life — where I fell back on a bed, exhausted but EXHILARATED.

And it’s in those moments when I come home from a wedding I’ve just photographed, peel off my sweaty clothes and fall back on a bed, exhausted but EXHILARATED, that I realize I’ve been chasing that feeling every since.

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January 18, 2010 - 8:41 pm Katie Beverley - Gail, you are gorgeous! I love this photo of you two and love that your wedding was what made you fall in love with wedding photography. You are one talented chica...

January 18, 2010 - 8:45 pm courtney - BEAUTIFUL wedding photo, Gail. :) You and Nick are such a gorgeous couple.

January 19, 2010 - 8:10 am Christine - This is such a beautiful photo. I can see why you picture this when you think about your wedding :) Photography is so powerful!

January 19, 2010 - 9:27 am Erin - so you are in the right profession, huh? i'm so glad that you've found what really makes you happy. and this photo is wonderful, just beautiful!

January 19, 2010 - 9:28 am Erin - oh yeah, and i totally remember that 'best day of my life' the same way...wish i could get married every day!

January 19, 2010 - 11:16 am Amanda - Awww. I feel the exact same way about my wedding photos.

January 19, 2010 - 3:27 pm Maya Laurent - So glad you shared this!!!

January 19, 2010 - 10:59 pm Clary - This is what life is all about. You found it:)

January 21, 2010 - 8:29 am jess - hi gail! i have followed your blog for a while now, and while i love all your photo's, i have never made a comment. but i can't help myself with this one. i recently got married, and while researching for a photographer, found my love for photography! since that day it's been all i can think about. i've started taking night college courses to learn all that i can, invested in a camera, and haven't put it down since. i can't wait until the day when i am ready to start my own business! it's nice to read that someone else's love for photography started in a similar way to mine...

January 26, 2010 - 9:02 pm Melody - You are so cute, love it! And, I couldn't agree more... :)

January 28, 2010 - 9:24 pm amanda reynolds - awe....i love you girl...and the way you share your heart :) i'm thrilled that i was the lucky girl who captured your wedding day, and even more thrilled that we have developed such a wonderful friendship. you are truly a beautiful soul!

I be up in B&N just working on my bizness …

So the POINT of this blog entry (aside from setting up a Fergie song that may get stuck in your head the way it’s stuck in mine – THANK YOU FOR THAT EARWORM MR. LOCAL DJ) is to talk about books. Specifically BUSINESS BOOKS.

Here’s the funny thing: In all the bookstores I’ve been to (a lot), over all the years I’ve been going (plenty), never once would I stop to check out the business section. In my mind, it was relegated to those other “Don’t come ’round here” sections of the bookstore. You know, the ones you didn’t really want to be seen in for certain reasons. That had titles that might involve words like kama and sutra … if you know what I’m sayin’ (and I think you do).

Riiiight…where was I?  Yes, to me, business books were BOH-RING. Snoozefest. Stuff a professor like Ben Stein would have me read IF I had studied business in college and needed extra credit in an econ course — which, of course, I didn’t.

But then, something happened. I STARTED A BUSINESS. And suddenly, all those business books I’d snub my nose at while breezing on to the fiction section? Well, they started MAKING SENSE. Here I am, in my second year of my business and I’m finding that for every good book I pick up for pleasure, I’ve got another in my hand that will be relevant for Gail Werner Photography. Case in point? I DEVOURED E-Myth Revisited on the flight to my workshop in Denver last month. Like, it was the lost volume of Twilight or something. (While we’re on that topic, seriously, come on Stephanie, release Midnight Sun already!).

So, there you have it. I’m suddenly trading booklists with my banker of a brother-in-law for new reads. Checking up on all the booklists out there for small businesses and those of some of my favorite photography mentors (hello David Jay :) ) and taking note of the fact that if you want to investin your business, you better be thinking beyond just new lens and new camera bodies. You should be investing in words too. And there’s an abundance of ‘em out there. You just gotta give ‘em a chance and turn the page.

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And if you want to share some of your own fave biz books, leave me a comment below or friend me on GoodReads

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January 14, 2010 - 5:28 pm Allison - I started the E Myth last night and I'm loving it so far!! I'm so excited to read all these books and I completely agree about Midnight Sun ;)

January 14, 2010 - 5:33 pm Michelle Sidles - hahaha!! Seriously, you just described me in a bookstore 5 years ago vs me in a bookstore today! ;) And Enjoy your REST!!!!

January 14, 2010 - 7:59 pm Christine - Ahhhhhhhh but I just can't drop the Sookie Stackhouse books! lol. As soon as I'm done number 9 I'll start the biz books. Hopefully :P

January 14, 2010 - 9:15 pm Pol - Been following a few business blogs (amongst them Seth Godin's). Haven't had a chance to go through any business books yet.

January 14, 2010 - 10:15 pm Betsy - I've had bird by bird for years!!! I need to find that one..... Man, you make me feel DUMB though! I am WAYYYYYY behind!! Good thing you are on MY side!!!!

January 14, 2010 - 10:49 pm Erica - I recently read David duChemin's book "Vision Mongers". It's not a business book in the traditional sense, but it really helped me focus on the kinds of photography that I want to do. For me, it was eye opening. I LOVE hanging out in bookstores! I just wish I could convince my 19 month-old that it was cool too.

January 15, 2010 - 12:41 pm Amanda - I'll just say it - I hate to read. It's sad. BUT I totally back you up that it's more than cameras and lenses. I've committed to two books this year, so I'm interested to know what your top two recs are...

January 15, 2010 - 4:13 pm kristin brown - oooh thanks for the book recommendations! i found you on osp and you have a cute blog and BEAUTIFUL photography. :)

January 16, 2010 - 4:32 pm Betsy Jo - Oooh, I love reading... especially when it involves big dreams. :) A great one to check out is called 'Lovemarks'-- so fun to read. (Not sure on the author.) It's all about brand loyalty and marketing. Quirky and fun design to the book, too. Have fun!

January 18, 2010 - 9:52 am Shelly - Hey there! First time I've been to your new blog! LOVE IT!!! Thanks for the sweet comment on my little Molly:) Someday I'd love to get together! Let's make it happen!

January 27, 2010 - 7:35 pm Amber Fox - You should do little book ratings on your blog to let us know what you think about the books. I just got in the mail today Zag, Outliers and Made to Stick and I just finished Love is a Killer App & Tribes. I have decided to read one business book a month, but so far, I have read two and about to start a third. And I loved some of your books that you bought...Getting Things Done & How to Win Friends & Influence People are simply amazing. So thanks for the book recs and I hope they do you well.

January 28, 2010 - 8:30 am Kim - You need a Kindle, girl! They are beyond cool and the books are cheaper! I buy a few books nearly every night... Yes, I have a problem too! ;-)

February 4, 2010 - 7:02 pm Grant - Ohh... Bird by Bird AND Getting Things Done! Both are awesome... but completely different! We've been rocking the business section lately, too. So many things to think about!

Forget Team Edward, I’m Team Nick

If you follow me on Twitter, you might have caught a tweet I made shortly before Christmas about having a certain little something wrapped under my tree from “Vampire Nick.” I was, of course, instantly amused and curious as well.

I opened my main gift from Nick first (an awesome Flip video camera I’ve been playing with ever since and eventually, when life slows down enough, will post something about) and saved this one for last. I opened it and what was inside? Only a gift that caused me to erupt in laughter. Like, tears-in-the-corners-of-my-eyes laughter.

Yes Internet, my husband got me an EDWARD CULLEN DOLL. For real, I can not even tell you how flippin’ hilarious this is to me. I think it even beats last year’s birthday present from him (and don’t hate, I DO actually wear my Snuggie, ’cause you know, I’m cold ALL THE TIME!) So why blog about this goofy little gift now?

Because Edward’s propped up here at my desk and each night as I sit here, working away, there comes a moment I look up at him and laugh. I laugh at how my husband is goofy enough to get me gag gifts. I appreciate the simple fact he’s OK with my obsession with a fictional vampire (”You and every other girl in America,” he tells me). And so, when I look at this plastic hunk of junk (’cause let’s face it — he doesn’t REALLY look like Edward and that’s really what this tiny little incarnation is), I fall in love with my husband all over again.

Nick, thank you for making me giggle on bleak winter days during which a giggle is much needed. I love you for it.

XOXO,
Gail

PS – And for the record, I’ll always be Team Nick :)

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January 12, 2010 - 9:18 pm Ellen - Nick told me about this when I was up there before Christmas! I think he was pretty excited about it. :) Love it. But. . . .it looks more like Angel to me.

January 12, 2010 - 10:21 pm gwyneth colleen - i am SOOOO team jacob. i don't get the edward thing AT ALL. at all.

January 13, 2010 - 6:14 am Erin - CUTE! :) great story, too. sometimes the funniest gifts are the best!

January 13, 2010 - 7:40 am Christine - Awwwww this is so cute!!! I love those kinds of gifts. Matt bought me play dough this year for Christmas. Love it!! :)

January 13, 2010 - 11:27 am Mike Wise - It looks like you set up a white seamless paper background for Ed. :) Care to share your settings on this? Hahaha...jk.

January 13, 2010 - 2:34 pm j.ro - it looks like it's a wood carving. and if that's the case then your doll just got ten times cooler ;o)

January 13, 2010 - 9:13 pm kerri banyas - that is the most fab gift ever! Isn't it the sweetest thing when your hubby is your BFF...so perfect :)

January 13, 2010 - 10:07 pm Erica - What a thoughtful gift! I love those kinds of gifts best. I'm not sure if I'm team Edward or Jacob, but I am leaning towards Jacob. Nothing like a hot man to keep you warm!